We are now living in the competitive world. There is rat race for money, name and fame. Every person wants to succeed and supersede his fellows, rivals and competitors we see competition in every sphere of life .In the school there is competition among children, in politics among politicians, in playground between players, in business among businessmen etc. Everyone wants to see him or herself on the top or to be the first in a short span of time. It hardly matters to the people which path they adopt to reach their goal. People are adopting inferior methods to reach
their destination. They want to succeed by hook or by crook. Minds of people have become so polluted that they even do not bother even that they are hitting below the belt or are adopting corrupt means for reaching at the top of ladder of success. We have to put each and every step very safely to reach the top of ladderYou have to be very careful when you just start stepping on the ladder of success; because jealous people try each and every possible means try to drop the ladder from your feet.. If you want yourself to be counted among the list of successful people certain changes in your thinking pattern, behavior and manners are needed and are mandatory. The Following tips may prove to be very helpful in your life:
Fix your destination --- First of all fix your task and destination. Once you have fixed your task and made up your mind, than start working on this project or goal with full confidence, determination, dedication and positive mind. After setting your goal the second thing is perseverance. Do not change your goal repeatedly rather stick to your plan of work with dedication and perseverance.
Do hard work ---You can win your task by doing daily hard work. Hard work is the key to success. You might have listened from successful people that there is no substitute or alternative to this hard work. There is no short cut to success. Always keep in mind the examples of spider and ants .How hard the spider works to spin her web? How industrious the ants are!
Do not blame and curse your luck --If perchance you are not able to succeed do not blame and rue on your bad luck and God. This is the most common excuse put forward by many people when they failed in their mission. You can change your luck by hard work and toiling hard. God also favors luck of those people who do hard work with dedication to succeed. There is proverb “God is always with big battalion”
Self confidence –Self confidence is the hallmark of success. Half the goal is achieved when you start your work with full self confidence and determination. A wavering mind cannot succeed in spite of hard work. Always think positive and be optimist that I have the capacity to undertake this task to its logical end.
Self analysis –Do your self analysis on daily basis. Introspection is must to succeed in life. Those who introspect they become aware of their inadequacies and short comings and in the mean time they can amend it. Analyze and ponder over your weakness or vulnerabilities
Start dreaming about your task – Dreams are not that we see during sleep at night but are those that cause our mind enthusiastic to achieve something. Dreams are precursors of success. First there is a dream in our mind than come its fulfillment. We can not gain anything without dreams but dreaming should not be day dreaming it should be based upon our abilities and capabilities to undertake the task.
High Thinking – Keep your thinking as high as possible. Always think of great persons and great events that have shaped the course of history .Try to emulate the most successful people like Bill Gates, Ratan Tata and try to follow their ideals and drive inspiration from them. Select your models of life.
By following these tips in your life I am sure you will succeed in your mission of life and you will reach the top of the ladder of success.